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Steps to succeed ?are they really so?

Steps to succeed ? Are they really so? STEP 1.  To succeed one must be humble in life....what if our humility is taken as our weakness...today people enjoy the dictum..MIGHT IS RIGHT..if you do not show authority you are considered a weakling and even your near and dear ones ride over you....so where do we stand in the first step? STEP 2: Be firm and steady...if you are so you are considered arrogant...people do not appreciate your firmness.. You are a woman and you should be pliable...you should complement your husband and never show your individuality.. In this male dominated society the woman is just a puppet...so there goes the second step... STEP 3: Donot postpone for tomorrow what you can do today...again...if you try to be firm and want to get things done then and there.. You are again considered adamant... It is appreciated when a man does that but not when it is the woman.. STEP 4: DO not be greedy.. Be satisfied with what you have got....BE contented....Then why do t...
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Don't wallow in self pity..

Don't wallow in self pity.. You should take care not to engage in self pity as that destroys your inner courage to fight against your depression..this mindset will destroy your personality and make you hysterical... You will get temperamental and become easily angered or sober and introverted.. Silence now us the best way  to get yourself on your toes,...engage in activities that will boost your self esteem.. Care a damn about people around you who do not support you in your attempts to come out of this..ignore them and spend your time in prayers and meditation .. That will keep you at peace with yourself..do not allow yourself to be humiliated ...arise out of this quagmire by accepting the situation and trying to find ways and means of enjoying what is at hand... May be this is what you are destined for...accept the situation and swim with the tide...you cannot change the events that have happened but you can survive amidst this for it is all in your hands.. Convert your self pi...
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Life and it's vagaries I never thought that life will give me so much...when I left Alain after 32 years, life was one big lot of   Emptiness for I did not want to leave Alain..a woman is never allowed her individuality...should she always toe the line ? Can she not be respected for her feelings and the man agree to her views? That was  not in my wish list.. I toed the line and started packing..then came the US trip...that was again enjoyable when I merged my mood with that of the others in the family..routine of a different kind... It was just that there were two masters instead of one..my son... He is now an adult and an earning member..so there goes his whims and fancies...the difference in attitude and his thinking took me by surprise.. Yet he was sweet enough to keep me happy by being a dutiful son and pampering me at all levels..enjoyed it to the hilt and started back to chennai to open my next innings..the first few days went in adjusting to the new lifestyle ...hari ...
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