Steps to succeed ?are they really so?

Steps to succeed ? Are they really so?
STEP 1.  To succeed one must be humble in life....what if our humility is taken as our weakness...today people enjoy the dictum..MIGHT IS RIGHT..if you do not show authority you are considered a weakling and even your near and dear ones ride over you....so where do we stand in the first step?
STEP 2: Be firm and steady...if you are so you are considered arrogant...people do not appreciate your firmness.. You are a woman and you should be pliable...you should complement your husband and never show your individuality.. In this male dominated society the woman is just a puppet...so there goes the second step...
STEP 3: Donot postpone for tomorrow what you can do today...again...if you try to be firm and want to get things done then and there.. You are again considered adamant... It is appreciated when a man does that but not when it is the woman..
STEP 4: DO not be greedy.. Be satisfied with what you have got....BE contented....Then why do they tell us to aim higher?The same world tells you to to think big and think high...what a contrast?
STEP 5 : BELIEVE in yourself ??do what you are capable of doing without fear??A good deal...not to mention the world will call you proud...over ambitious ....and what not?
STEP 6: DO your job with commitment and self confidence???FINE????as long as  it is your territory of household chores.. Enter into the man's territory and you are considered an intruder...He doesn't like being pointed out as inefficient... Then we are considered over smart ...
STEP 7: DO your duty and do  Not hang on to your rights...Donot nurture jealousy and hatred...EASY to say but difficult to practice... Your duties are more important than your rights...if you are going to practice this you shall be sacrificing yourself and your identity for the sake of others...your sacrifice will lead you nowhere and you shall end pumas a square peg in a round hole...
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