Don't wallow in self pity..

Don't wallow in self pity..
You should take care not to engage in self pity as that destroys your inner courage to fight against your depression..this mindset will destroy your personality and make you hysterical... You will get temperamental and become easily angered or sober and introverted.. Silence now us the best way  to get yourself on your toes,...engage in activities that will boost your self esteem.. Care a damn about people around you who do not support you in your attempts to come out of this..ignore them and spend your time in prayers and meditation .. That will keep you at peace with yourself..do not allow yourself to be humiliated ...arise out of this quagmire by accepting the situation and trying to find ways and means of enjoying what is at hand... May be this is what you are destined for...accept the situation and swim with the tide...you cannot change the events that have happened but you can survive amidst this for it is all in your hands.. Convert your self pity into self praise and find peace in gods ways...surrender yourself to him and he will guide you to rise above this...
With musings..
Sara's...